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ok hibi i'll have a go at starting a discussion,lets here about how we met our partners,and for those single girls out there the best romantic date you've been on. i'll start it off how i met my partner....
way back in 2ooo i was flirting in the lesbian chatrooms ,me and another girl had this game called "fishing" we would chat women up and see if we got "a bite".i was 39 back then and this new girl came in the chatroom by the nicname of kiss4u .she started trying to chat to me but been as she was only 26 i thought she's not going to be interested in me as i was 39.it took quite a while before we eventually had a good chat ,that chat lasted all night untill 6am.we soon realised we had feelings for each other and both of us ran up huge phone bills.she lived nearly 300 miles away but we didn't let that stand in the way nor the fact i was married then in a abusive marriage and 3 children.about 2 months later she came up to visit it was suppose to be for one night in bed and breakfast but it turned into 3 nights lol.then a few weeks later she moved to where i lived it all took very careful planning so no one would find out.
by march of that year i brought her an engagement ring,being the romatic that i am i took her for a mcdonalds first then after parked up in a layby and made her get out the car then i went on one knee and proposed to her.she said yes.
then it took until nov 2002 for me to be able to get a place so we could live together.i was moving my stuff out bit by bit so my husband wouldn't notice.then the day came when i got the keys to our new house ,one supplied by the council.i took the kids and we all moved in.
things have changed since then ,the kids now live with their dad,and we haven't got round to marriage yet.but we are still as much in love if not more so.also i might add i did not know what heidi looked liked until a week before she first came to visit,she knew what i looked like cos i sent a pic thro email but she couldn't cos she hadn't a scanner.so in the end she sent a photo via a mate of mine lol.
way back in 2ooo i was flirting in the lesbian chatrooms ,me and another girl had this game called "fishing" we would chat women up and see if we got "a bite".i was 39 back then and this new girl came in the chatroom by the nicname of kiss4u .she started trying to chat to me but been as she was only 26 i thought she's not going to be interested in me as i was 39.it took quite a while before we eventually had a good chat ,that chat lasted all night untill 6am.we soon realised we had feelings for each other and both of us ran up huge phone bills.she lived nearly 300 miles away but we didn't let that stand in the way nor the fact i was married then in a abusive marriage and 3 children.about 2 months later she came up to visit it was suppose to be for one night in bed and breakfast but it turned into 3 nights lol.then a few weeks later she moved to where i lived it all took very careful planning so no one would find out.
by march of that year i brought her an engagement ring,being the romatic that i am i took her for a mcdonalds first then after parked up in a layby and made her get out the car then i went on one knee and proposed to her.she said yes.
then it took until nov 2002 for me to be able to get a place so we could live together.i was moving my stuff out bit by bit so my husband wouldn't notice.then the day came when i got the keys to our new house ,one supplied by the council.i took the kids and we all moved in.
things have changed since then ,the kids now live with their dad,and we haven't got round to marriage yet.but we are still as much in love if not more so.also i might add i did not know what heidi looked liked until a week before she first came to visit,she knew what i looked like cos i sent a pic thro email but she couldn't cos she hadn't a scanner.so in the end she sent a photo via a mate of mine lol.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
when are you going to tie the knot?
Thanks for posting!!!!!!
Now I'll share mine...
fishing....you were naughty!
We talked and talked via instant messaging, then on the phone and eventually I drove the distance to see her and the rest is herstory. My kids and I look forward to moving back "home" and being a family with her. My children were not surprised at all. I was the last one to figure this out!
We had a good 7 years. But, ultimately, me being bipolar was too much for her.
peace, t
And that's the story of how I met my current, my first love, and my last. I love her with my whole heart and I can't wait until we're together in person and sharing a life together.
Highbi and gozzy2, your stories are cute. I'm so glad that you're all happy and good luck in the future.
YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK(jealous) LOVE SUCKS AND IM DISGUSTED BY THE CHEESINESS OF THIS POST(i have a stick up my ass) THERES NO SUCH THING AS A LOVE STORY AND READING THIS WAS A TOTAL WASTE OF MY TIME (i need to get laid)
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Hey there...explained quite well. There you go, all is well then, right? Maybe I ought to take a moment before I open my mouth...hahaha. I will reflect on that and maybe next time I'll be a little more aware...a learning lesson for me. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Have a great day, Bern
Our love story... I have that song from "Love Story" in my head now. You know, "how do I begin, to tell the story of how great a love can be...". Sorry - sometimes the music in my head kidnaps me.
When I was a young lady of 18 years old, I worked at a convenience store and spent my days and nights watching people on their way to some fun affair stop and get gas. There was this sweet girl who used to stop and send her boyfriend in to pay - I wanted to be him! She had this shy smile and expressive eyes. Anyway, life continues, I leave the wasteland of the gas station and place the girl in the reserves of my mind, the section where I stored unfulfilled longing.
Fast forward two years, 1992: English 101. The lovely lass and her bfriend come walking in. For the first time in my life I am glad the professor makes us sit alphabetically and introduce each other - she starts with K, I with L. We became friends and started spending time together (and with her boytoy). She knew I was a lesbian but was young and naive and I was patient. I didn't even really come on to her until 1995 at a time we were both finally single. Rejection hurts after 5 years of desire!!
Eventually in 1997, she crawled into my bed when she was supposed to be staying the night on the couch! We didn't commit to each other for another year and continued to date others while she finished college. But, in November 1998, we took the plunge and haven't looked back. Nine glorious years later, I am still as enamored with her; my heart skips a beat when she walks into the room.