hiya i know its hard/hurtful when, u love sum1 and they dont love u back, it is very hard 2deal with but hearts do mend,it just takes time....there r "normal" lesbians out there, but every1 has problems, and just keep going about ur everyday life and ur true loved 1will,just fall in2 ur arms....ur not pathetic and im here if u want 2chat x
*hugs*

sorry u r feeling depressed.i agree there are some screwed up lesbians out there who seem to thrive on us innocent lesbians.i myself have been led up the garden path by a "user" about 12 years ago.but there are genuine lesbians out there too.
being lonely is not nice and i understand how this can affect your depression.i know i'm in a relationship but i have no friends either not even straight ones.
but hopefully you will make many friends on here as we are a friendly bunch.

You aren't pathetic, I know just how you feel. I wasn't used exactly, but I was absolutely crushed by my girlfriend who up and left to Tx on the 29th with a "friend" who came to get her. She lied all through the night about staying and ended up leaving. I am to the point that I want no more relationships, my heart can't take it.

I also have no friends really. The only person I had to really talk to pretty much has changed her attitude towards me since this happened so I just sit here online trying to get through the day.

Good luck to you, I pray things start working out soon for you.

~R~

Go ahead and have a pity party...for a time. Then fond more purpose to your life, volunteer, be a help to someone and find the skip in your step. She will come.

You are not pathetic, you are being more honest than most. I appreciate your honesty.
I avoid romance like the plague, I have had enough of people and their bullshit. So I deal with friends only, and frankly, I only have one real friend here in missouri.
I live in an area that cant stand black people so imagine me having a lot of friends here NOT.
Although I am and always have been kind of a hermit. I find that most people have their lives the way they want them and do not want or need any more friends which is fine with me.
It does get rough being alone all the time but at least when I deal with me, I know exactly what I am dealing with lol.
I know how to entertain myself, I have had to do it all of my life. I was not an only child but was treated like I was non existant except for being abused, so I learned at an early age how to keep to myself.
Then when you get older and folks are always trying to run game on you, you just learn to isolate yourself even more. Then when or if you get a chronic health condition folks REALLY dont want to be bothered with you and you find yourself isolating yourself before folks get a chance to run from you which has already happened to me. Believe me, I know exactly what you are going through. Go do something really cool for you. Like get a facial or pedicure or rent a movie or get a really good book. It can ease the worry in the mind....prayer works too to give you peace which surpasses all understanding...
I have tears in my eyes as I re-read this. wow a lot comes out when you speak from the heart....

Hi there! Sorry you are having a hard time. It is not nice to feel so alone. I can relate. Am going through similar stuff. I am here for you if you need me!