what is with someone breaking up with you that was suppose to be madly in love with you, you make them whole and your the one that they came out for and was talking about having a baby and marriage with and then she just drop out if your world, not even a phone call. just dont get it. one minute she's never loved anyone as much as me then the next day gone. One of my ex friends told her that i was still married. i wasnt, it still shows on the web site as married but i was going thru a custody battle we spent a year of our lives together with my kids. she even walked away from them. what the heck. i've finally just said the heck with it and now i'm done. i've tried to get her back, but she wont talk or read my e-mails and if she is why not respond? I stopped trying to talk to her and she called my moms and then showed up at my bar and wouldnt speak to me just got mad because i have moved on a had alot of girls there and guys which was all over me. i know she was there to see me. what should i do, just say the heck with it, i am seeing a few girls, i get numbers every where i go. anyway... is she just upset or is she chosing not to talk because she knows that she'll want me back? by the way she's living with her buddy and they like their drug. i gave her a choice him or me. what would you do. keep fighting or give up. she is a control freak and alot of you guys have helped and read my journal.... vote let her go or keep fighting???????? if keep fighting what should i do?????