Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

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Well, after constantly telling her what was bothering me with our relationship and having her ignore what I have been saying... I have finally had it and am leaving. Keep happy thoughts for me as this is one of the hardest things i have ever done. She was my first and I loved her so much...but I have been taken for granted for a long time and i can't do it anymore.
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hun i know exactly what your going through and it's a very hard desicion you've had to make but if you ever need to talk im here.
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Wish you could work it thru and be all the stronger together.
Be good to yourself, like you would a friend.
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I DO LOVE YOU VERY MUCH !!!!!
LISTEN TO HIGHBI'S ADVISE SHE SOUNDS LIKE A REAL PERSON.I LOVE YOU WITH EVERY FIBER OF MY BEINGS. I DO KNOW THAT MUCH
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I am proud of you...Standing up for yourself is teaching others a new way to treat you. It is not going to be easy, yet keep on keep'en on and take good care of yourself!!
Peace,
Nicol
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Listen to your heart. If your heart is aching and there's an uneasyness to your stomach. If your mind wonders on good time and then bad. You are grieving the lost.

I am not saying do go and I am not saying stay. Just make sure, because anything worth having is worth fighting for.

A Relationship is just like anything else, "if it was easy everyone would do it, its the hard that makes it good." Who said that and in what movie, I can't remember, but its good stuff.
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Each time we experience loss we grow stronger for it. It won't be easy. Give yourself time to grieve before heading into any other relationships. Good luck. peace, t
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