
Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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Hi all im 26 from Sunny England.
My story starts like this -
I began a relationship with a girl 4 years ago. We brought a house together. Unfortunately the relationship came to an end after months of abuse from my partner. Throughout my relationship and before i was seriously attracted to a girl from work. Incredibly gorgeous, infact maybe the most beautiful girl i have ever laid my eyes on. We always flirted and there was always something with us. She lived with a guy at the time and i was with my girlfriend so nothing ever happened between us. Then i split with my girlfriend and this amazing girl from work told me she had feelings for me. For months we began seeing eachother and then she left her partner and moved in with me. She was unhappy with him and seemed to want to spend all her time with me. She suffers with depression and has had a hell of alot of heartache and bad times. I find it hard some days as she can be horrible. Alot of the time her ex winds her up so much she takes out all her frustration on me. Not in a physical way, just verbally and her attitude towards me. I love this girl more than i love anything in the whole world. We have great days and some bad ones. We never seem to get a clear run at things. When its good she is lovely behond belief. She cant seem to let her ex go, but says its hard for her as they spent 6 years together and have a child together. I would support her in anything and the last few weeks we have got so close but i know it wont last and we will end up at square one again. Im trying to help her to face her demons and i do my best to help her, to make her smile, to love her. I do know she loves me but i think she loves her ex too. Im the supportive one and he's her past and the father of her child. He brings out all the worst in her. She is becoming so so strong and so wise about things. I love her when she is talking sense but hate her when she lets him wind her up and then i get all her shit. Will there ever be a time when things are normal and she faces her demons and truly loves me back ??
Sorry if im rambling !
xx
My story starts like this -
I began a relationship with a girl 4 years ago. We brought a house together. Unfortunately the relationship came to an end after months of abuse from my partner. Throughout my relationship and before i was seriously attracted to a girl from work. Incredibly gorgeous, infact maybe the most beautiful girl i have ever laid my eyes on. We always flirted and there was always something with us. She lived with a guy at the time and i was with my girlfriend so nothing ever happened between us. Then i split with my girlfriend and this amazing girl from work told me she had feelings for me. For months we began seeing eachother and then she left her partner and moved in with me. She was unhappy with him and seemed to want to spend all her time with me. She suffers with depression and has had a hell of alot of heartache and bad times. I find it hard some days as she can be horrible. Alot of the time her ex winds her up so much she takes out all her frustration on me. Not in a physical way, just verbally and her attitude towards me. I love this girl more than i love anything in the whole world. We have great days and some bad ones. We never seem to get a clear run at things. When its good she is lovely behond belief. She cant seem to let her ex go, but says its hard for her as they spent 6 years together and have a child together. I would support her in anything and the last few weeks we have got so close but i know it wont last and we will end up at square one again. Im trying to help her to face her demons and i do my best to help her, to make her smile, to love her. I do know she loves me but i think she loves her ex too. Im the supportive one and he's her past and the father of her child. He brings out all the worst in her. She is becoming so so strong and so wise about things. I love her when she is talking sense but hate her when she lets him wind her up and then i get all her shit. Will there ever be a time when things are normal and she faces her demons and truly loves me back ??
Sorry if im rambling !
xx
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My partner left her husband of 14 years for me, she walked a way from security and he was the primary for the children,even though they was with us a great deal of the time. But the heartbreak of leaving her children and the guilty of not wanting to be with him was a lot for her to deal with on a daily basis.
I had to learn to keep loving and keep being there even when she was stepping on me, because I was the one she choose and I loved her.
I wish you luck, sweets. Be true to yourself!
Big hug for ur reply and for ur help - much appreciated xxxxxxx
My heart goes out to you it really does.
Its difficult to let go of the one person who you love. I am still going through it after 14months from a 6yr split.
All I can say is it does get easier in time, slowly but surely.
I have read all the comments and probable agree with most. If she has decided to leave then that too has been a hard decision for her. You cant keep someone there who doesnt want to be there and all you end up doing is hurting the both of you. Your both unhappy with the relationship for different reasons. Its no ones fault...
What I would say though is take time out to find yrself gagain and who you really are.
as you cant make anuone else happpy if your not happy with yrself....
I know I am there.....
Tiny x