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just need to get this out :(

miamormio
miamormio
im madly in love with a very special woman... she lives in another country and is trying to move over here, she just got turned down last night for something she needed in order to come over and is in pieces that she has let me and our friends down etc. she asked me how i was and after much deliberating i tod her i wasnt great (we both suffer from depression). i told her why but now im beating myself up something chonic about telling her. just struggling today
deleted_user
deleted_user
honesty is the best policy it was a good thing you was able to be honest with her.don't blame urself
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm with Gozzy. You need to be able to express your needs because to subvert them means disaster in a relationship. If you're hiding the 'true' you than you're not going to have a good relationship.
peace, teresa
loiacki
loiacki
It is good that you were honest. If you tried to pass yourself off as fine she would probably be hurt thinking you don't care that much. It all works itself out in the long run, though. Stay encouraged!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not everything needs to be said. Especially when one is feeling emotional, it often isn't what you really meant to say or wasn't the best way to communicate. Its OK to apologize and clarify how you meant to say how sad and perhaps frustrated you are...good luck, I'm sure there is another way..
Remember there are no perfect humans just perfectly human beings making mistakes all the time!
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