I have been in a relationship for 5 years now (we've lived together for 4 of them). About 8 months ago, things started getting kind of rocky. My partner, we'll call her B, gets stressed out very easily and since she had enrolled in a new college and we were buying a house, I thought things would blow over after we got settled into our new house. So now, 8 months later, things have only gotten worse. We are spending less time together, and the time we do spend together is full of tension and drama. I told her she could quit her job since she was so stressed out about it, and now I'm the only one working, but she still acts like I'm not doing enough. She says she wants to find more friends that are lesbians since she is so bored with her life, and maybe this will help, but I'm not so sure. I want to work on our relationship, not add new ones to our lives. I feel like I'm losing her more everyday. What should I do?