Well this is embarrassing but I don't really know what to do in order to get some good advice on my situation. I have been with someone for almost 3 years now. I always been in lengthy relationships. My previous relationship was 5 years. My problem is that I have never been in a relationship like this one when it comes to intimacy. I love her a lot so I always want to be with her. However she has some issues with lack of an intimacy drive. So therefore we only get intimate every 3 months or so. I try more often than that but I always end up feeling rejected. It is always one excuse after the other. It is causing me to have self-esteem issues. I have never had these problems with intimacy before and have always felt attractive until now. Well, for the most part. I guess that everyone has a tendency to get a low self-image every once in a while. I have tried multiple things to spice things up and we have had multiple discussions with no improvements in either direction. I am really at a loss of what to do. Is it worth it to give up everything you desire completely to be with someone that you love? It makes me resentful sometimes and I catch myself getting angry at stupid things. Any advice would be appreciated.
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