I have been single for 2 years, after a very bad relationship but still at times miss the intimacy.....not the person.

Um, I've been single for sometime. It's kinda of wierd. I have definitley noticed that they jump from relationship to relationship.I dont want to do that. My efforts are sincere and hopeful Im sure that if yours are too, you will find someone that works for you, in time. This time of the year its hella hard to be patient. I think it will be okay for us to go at our own pace. Think of it like the V.I.P single life lol

I don't think that there is anything wrong with being alone. Sometimes I wish that I had a little bit more strength in the past and it would have given me more time to define myself. From experience I will say that if things did not work the first time then they will not work out with the same person again. Take the time to think about what qualities that you would like in a partner and observe those qualities in potential people that you are interested in. Love finds you when you least expect it. Good luck and I hope that you have a wonderful holiday!

I was single 8 years and it was a best and important time in my development as a human being and prepared me for A REAL relationship. We are not to wrap our identity around another. We must learn to accept and be who we are...

I've been single for 10 days.

It's something I better get used to because the rest of my life is a long time and I intend to spend it this way. I do not want another relationship...WAY too painful. I never expected her to up and dump me the way she did, she killed trust in others for me.

It does seem as if lesbians jump from relationship to relationship and I do not intend to be another pit stop for some gal who can't decide what she wants.

~R~

Not all of us jump from one relationship to another. My last relationship lasted for 12 years.

I think we should get to know someone better before we give our heart away, (date). Find out who this person really is before the sex take over the brain. Sex changes everything,once that happens its all about keeping this person happy. I don't think people show their true side until the sex cools down.

Its just my opimion, but date and get to know someone then give your heart away.

couldn't agree more once the sex starts to trail off u see the real person.

Space is healthy between relationships.Its a time to get to know yourself. enjoy it , it wont last that long.

lesbians jump from realtionship to realtionship. if your friends are lesbians you are problys "linked" i thought alice's web (the l word) was bull. but do it with your friends. its quite disgracefull.. lesbeans huh?
cant live without them
cant live with em... or something like that..

DUDE UR NOT WIRED I HAVNT EVEN HAVE A SERIOUSE RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYGIRL MAYBE AM WEIRD TO LOL ITS JUST U NEED TO WAIT FOR THAT OTHER PERSON TRUST ME IT MAY BE CLOSER THAT U THINK IT SOMETIMES DOESNT HELP WHEN U LOOK TO MUCH AT THE PAST CAUSE THING MAY BE PASSING YOU BY AND AND A IT MAY GREAT

DUDE UR NOT WIRED I HAVNT EVEN HAVE A SERIOUSE RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYGIRL MAYBE AM WEIRD TO LOL ITS JUST U NEED TO WAIT FOR THAT OTHER PERSON TRUST ME IT MAY BE CLOSER THAT U THINK IT SOMETIMES DOESNT HELP WHEN U LOOK TO MUCH AT THE PAST CAUSE THING MAY BE PASSING YOU BY AND AND A IT MAY GREAT