My wife is coming out. At first I was in denial. I did not want to believe that she was true with her decision and that I could change the way she felt. So to give you a ideal im in the marine corps and iv been in japan for almost 3 months. 3 weeks ago my wife told me that she did not want to be in are marriage any more, because of the way she felt about woman. This was not the first time that she brought it up, but is the first time she told me that she did not want to be with me anymore. The other times we both did not know how to handle the situation and we both got each other confused about the way we both felt. I know at first I was not sincere about it because we were In high school and every time she broke up with me she went out on dated with other guys. And when I seen here my space search over a year ago I knew something was up but I still could not appreciated the feeling that she was feeling. To sum it all up I am now home from japan until the 22nd on this month since iv been home I found out that my wife has already been with another woman intimately but was lying to me when she promised to wait until I got home from japan. I really love my wife, more then most people could under stand but right now my love is not letting me show it. I have been home for 1 week now. I have already forgiven her for cheating on me before I left japan. Right now I do not feel like she under stands me. I am really emotional right now and I truly want her to be happy in life, even if it is not with me. I have watched things to help me try to understand the way she feels like the L show. The only thing I see in the series that I watched is leighann and my life. The show is made so that any girl that was having these feeling for 7 years or 7 seconds would be able to relate, and in a since could she her self as a lesbian or a bisexual girl. I would just like to have everyone on daily strength to really stop and truly think about the advice they give out. Just ask your self are you truly thinking about the person that asked the question, do you even know the person that youre trying to help. Just know that what you say truly does affect the person. the last three weeks my wife, my soul mate has lied to me and has betraied my trust, because when she could not come to me, and she turned to all of you and put her trust in your hands. Now I have to truly show her how much I love her and I have to let her go because I want her to be happy.
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