I have a lisbian friend of 8 months. She has been a real good firend, but I am concerned about how much I am having to do for the relationship. She says she does not reach out and indeed doesn't. She says she doesn't have much to say and indeed I have to carry the conversation. We met in a mental health facility and do give each other support, but I am now wondering if this one side friendship is what I want or need. Anyway, Sunday she was suppose to come visit me at my home. Her mother called me (she lives with her mother) and said that my friend had a temperature of 101 and would not be visiting. I voiced my concern and asked that my friend call me when she wakes up. She never called. I called her the next day and got her mother again, who said my friend was feeling better to sleeping a lot. I indicated that was good and would she have my friend call me when she woke up. Now it is Wed and no call. My question is should I call again or is this in her ball park? I like her, but am getting frustrated about all the missed dates. She has cancelled a couple other times, coming to my home. Basically, she can not be depended upon and I am not sure I can or want to handle this. What do you think?
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