how do u keep a relationship together when 2 people are soo very different? iv been seein this woman for about 4 months now and its been absolutly fabulous up until we got in out first real arguement. the person im seein is a high school theatre teacher. and shes pretty well know in my area for drama and stage shows. so theres always some sort of fancy theatre or show opening that she has to attend.. so well the other night i went to my very first one with her and it was the most uncomfortable situation. iv never expierenced things of the theatre world before so it was like takin me from one extreme to another.. that part didnt really bother me to to much but the fact the she completly ignored me the entire time we were there once we got up with her friends whom im never met..so right there im nervous ya know..she didnt even kiss me or at least even try to hold my hand or speak to me really. i think that she should have at least tried to make me as comfortable as possible but no she didnt. so when i finally told her that she iggd me all night she tried to turn it all around on me by sayin well i felt that u brought that on urself by not talkin.. ok so thats basically whut happend. so yesterday we finally talked everything out sort of.. but we realized that we are soo different. like she comes from a home where her parents are still married and a lil wealthy did great in high shool played for sports for school.. a great education.. and me i come from a broken home where we barely had nething not the least bit wealthy i did absolutly horrible in school hardly ever went really.. didnt particapate in school activities or nething and i never had the chance to continue on in school and have a great education.. not everyone has that luxurey. so in other words shes from the wealthy great neighborhood and im from the not so great ghetto neighborhood i should say. but we did realize that we like each a whole lot and care for each other deeply and that we were willin to try hard to make it work... but how? i really want it to work.. or im afraid it might be over! is it even worth tryin so hard with 2 people that are so different?!?!
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