Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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Hi everyone.....long story short...I was raped and I haven't been able to get close to any men since then....I'm a lover of men yes. I don't have the drive and when I have tried things manualy I get no where...I miss the human touch...I have crawled into my girlfriends arms and just cried...no body knows girls bodys better than you...if you have any ideas...of what I might be doing wrong....want to havce sex again....but nervous around the men...so I will have to do it on my own. HELP!!!
colored-cheerios
I read this earlier.... and I don't want you to think that we aren't out here.. I just don't know what to say really. I think that this is more of a trust and ability to relax issue... what do you think?
deleted_user
well I think your right. I just want to be human...and I thought maybe I was having problems doing things on my own. So I thought when it comes to female bodies and know how....you would probably know more than me....didn't mean to offend
deleted_user
hay there sweetie ur not offending me at least its not physical trust me I was raped I know this is a mind issue u dont feel safe enough to relax to allow ur body to go with the flow one step at a time get the healing from the rape first u have to except it wasn't ur fault than u can work on trust to feel safe with ur lover male of female doesnt matter its the same but just sex is over u need to feel love and make love the mind can do more than we give it credit including hinder use 1 step at a time ok
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