I have been with my gf for 5 years and we live together. Just a few days ago I found out that she has feelings for a co worker. This girl is also in a relationship. They have been talking for awhile and at first I didn't mind cause I figured they both are lesbians and they can talk about things that they can't talk about with other co workers. So at first I suspected something was going on when she always would call my girl for everylittle thing and when her and her gf would have an arguement. She would tell my girl all her sad stories about how bad her relationship is. Even when we are home together instead of spending time she is having a conversation with this girl through texting constently. So then I asked her if they have feelings for eachother. She got very upset at me and told me I was insecure. I tried not to let it bother me and just to have trust in her. Just deep down inside I knew something wasn't right. So I did a wrong thing by looking through her email. And sure enough I found a couple emails with my girl saying she has feelings for her. I confronted her about it and she said that she HAD feelings but not anymore. I'm confused because while she was having feelings for this girl she was telling me how much she loves me. These feelings that she had is because this girl was giving her all the attention? She said she won't talk to her again if it will make me happy but I don't have the right to tell her who she can and can't talk to right? I even went as far to emailing the girl with no response lol. Any advice I would really appreciate it.
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