Ok this could take a minute. I have been with my gf for a little over a year. She was fresh out of a relationship that didn't end well when we started dating. At that time I didn't think there would be a friendship with the ex, but now there is and it is driving me nuts! I have tried many many times to explain my feeling on the subject to my gf and she just isn't getting it. I don't like the ex at all, she is a liar, back stabber and is only out for her own good. She calls in the middle of the night when she is drunk, she texts all the time, the last one I saw was to tell my gf happy new year and she was sorry they weren't spending it together. When she calls its about nothing important (the only reason I can come up with would be for work, since they do work together). All is good for a while we won't hear from her and then all of the sudden she will pop up again, and when she does we start to argue because my gf doesn't seem to think there is anything wrong with them being friends. I have tried to tell her that Im not jealous and Im not worried she will go back to her and thats the truth, I just feel like their time has passed and there is no reason for any uneccesary contact. Am I wrong? Should I just back off and deal with them being friends? Im just so tired of going round and round about this and getting so upset to the point I can't sleep and cry constantly when she calls. Please give me any advice!!!
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