I have been in a separation for about 3 weeks now and just tonite she came over to do some finances and get some bills paid. she looked at me and said she is really angry at me for all the things that happened in the past!! I know and you know you can't change these things that happen no matter what you do why now after 28 years does she bring out all that anger from the past and said that she didn't like me. I admit the past we had some long hard drag out fights sometimes physical on my part and verbal abuse on her part but we managed to get thru all that and now we are separated because of the past issues and she had 1026 textes and numurous calls to this woman who we are both friends with and now the woman wants nothing to do with me and all her. my spouse said that it was over between them and I feel betrayed and lied to by her. She kept this a secret from me and i found out through a cell phone bill!! now she is bringing the past into this. Is this fair for her to do this? I am asking her to let the past go and move forward. I would like to reconcyly but she is not ready. she has threatened to come here and throw me out of the house but it belongs to both of us. she can't, she has anger issues and i have anxiety and high stress from the worry of our future. someone can relate to this can you help.
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