Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.
omg okay.. here it goes... i get aggressive when im turned on. i mean throw her up against the wall, bite her, pull her hair, fuck her till she screams agressive. my guy friends call it the ragies... i tend to physically fight when i have no other outlet... and heres the thing....my new gf is submissive beyoned my imagination...but im afraid to show her this side of me... i know she likes it roughish.. (we were kissing and i pushed her agaist the wall and bite her lip and she loved it) i dont handle rejection well... and i dont want to be too agressive so that she tell me no... how do i control this so i can slowly ease her into this?
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just dont be so rough. why does she have to change. why dont you change?
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well yeah... but i cant enjoy it at all otherwise...
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this is called S&M there books on it they start from understanding why to helping ur mate understand why u both need to to read up on it there is a hole community out there. the books will teach u how to talk about how to have keys words that mean your hurting her that want make u fell bad read the books so u can understand u better. I dated a lady for 5yrs that loved it that way i had to read up on it so i could understand the both of us better good luck
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oh god she likes it thank you for your support
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