do u mean had first relationship or came out fully.
i was 17 when i had my first relationship then 35 when i came out fully,then went back into the closet for another 5 year after a failed relationship then sprung out again lol

my! my!

8 when I announced that girls where for kissing and boys where for playing baseball with. I think my dad fainted.

Such a complicated question.

I came out to a female crush at 13.
I did naked gymnastics with the cute little neighbor-girl at 7.
I was obsessed with my 3rd grade teacher and used to ride my bike past her house over and over.
I just came out yesterday to the nurse at the hospital.
Told my mom when I was 17, 19, 22, 26, 28.. I think she finally gets it.

Coming out is such a journey and we will have to do it for the rest of our lives. I guess I was fully out when I was about 19 with the exception of one college job. Fully out in my work since I was 25, but it's a constant process.

HAHA! What a question. Started perfecting my let's play nurse or let's play house with the other girls around 8. First GF @ 14. Transitioning to be "out" in college @ 17 (Sure I was THE ONLY Lesbian in the universe 'cause I was living in SD. LMAO) Explained it to mom the first time at 18. She still thinks it's "a phase" LOL! Been totally open about being out since then. Is a lifelong process. Amazing that some people still have their stereotypes and hatred. But we forge on!

I think I was always a lesbian but you did what you were suppose to do get married and have kids and live happily ever after. huh what a mistake. the only good part was my kids. i should have had the kids and got a girlfriend. i guess i was 22

I naively came out and told my mum when i was 12, but i was very quickly belted and beaten back in and tormented by my family, so i knew what i had done with my friends was 'wrong'
I got married, had kids, lived in hell, till i got out 2 years ago. I never stopped loving womyn or having a connection with them.

I ALWAYS knew..I had a crush on Kathie Guaz all thru school since Kindergarden...I had to get married to a MAN and get a divorce and totally piss my mom off to truly get beyond doing what other's expected of me to finally BE ME. I was 28!!

I've had crushes on womyn 4 as long as I can remember. I was raised that it was wrong, & the right thing 2 do was marry a man & have kids....I haven't done either. I hid my female relationships from the age of 19. I came out 6 months ago...my partner is the 1 who gave me the strength 2 do so & she never even had 2 say a word. She's just 2 Beautiful 2 keep a secret.

came out to everyone in middle school.. 14.. and my 1st gf was when i was 15.

hmmm wow. I am not that brave. I havent "come out." i had my first experience with a person of the same sex when I was 13. It was at a party and I was under the influence. I had no clue what I was doing and I dont really remember it all.

I was 32 when I came out. First relationship that same year.

came out to my highschool best friend and a college cousler when i was 19. came out to dad at 20-21. ben in and out with the same guy since i was 23 know i am going to be 25 and just realizing i am not what society calls normal and just feel like i am truly comming out to my self again.

Whew...just came out to my parents on Thanksgiving this year at the ripe old age of 31 years and 8 months. Have been in a relationship with an amazing woman for the past 11 months. :)

We come out every day of our lives... We come out to the lady at the grocery store, we come out to the cable guy, we come out to the co worker, we come out over and over again throughout our lives. And I think in society as a member of the GLBT community our goal is to not have to come out to every person, because every person should not simply assume. So in reality, i have been comming out my whole life, but to my parents and to my friends when I was 15. I lost alot of friends through it, but i've never stopped comming out.