I'm so confused about my relationship. Been together 5 years. We had a rough patch, we talked things through and came to an understanding and I thought we were ok. Then I find out more lies and secrets. I get messed up because anytime I confront her about "breaking a promise", no matter the issue, she says something like "well, its not a big issue". The issue was not huge but the promise to me was. Also I recently was going to put together a scrap book of our first emails to each other via a personal's ad profile, so I thought I'd see if I could find them. You can't delete the profile or account with that site so I get that its still there. What I don't get is why are there new pics of her, updated last year, still says "single". I don't even feel much of a reaction excpet that "here we go again". She'll tell me that I'm "anal", "uptight", not trusting and that I always think the worse. Is it really so? Is it normal to expect the one you love to be honest, and to not add new pics to a personal's ad? I feel I've lost track of what is "normal" and what to react to? I'd appreciate some input. Ask questions if not clear.
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