
Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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what makes us lesbians?did we know from a early age we wasn't like others?did we understand why?
do we believe it's to do with having perhaps too many male chromosones?do some believe it could be in our genes?
i don't know what made me gay,i just wondered what your views are on it all?
do we believe it's to do with having perhaps too many male chromosones?do some believe it could be in our genes?
i don't know what made me gay,i just wondered what your views are on it all?
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freud once said everyone is born bisexual was his theory right?