first of all give her all the support she needs.distancing yourself from others is all part of depression.no motivation is another part of it.does she still love you?
only let her go if she wants to go.i suffer from depression and when it's bad i just want to leave her.but i'm still here.

she says she loves me, she is still here but i know she is so close to not being here anymore. Im struggling. Im trying to support her and tell her i love her. I try to listen even when some of the stuff she says hurts me.Im doing my best but finding it tough with everything going on. I feel awful as i am full of cold but im trying to be there for her. I dont know if im making things better or worse. Im trying to be the strong one but its hard when she has no feeling in her. Nothing. I feel like if i dropped down dead she wouldnt even notice.

Depression is a horrible diease and many who have it dont realise the people they are hurting. All they can see is a black pit that they are struggling to get out of. Its difficult for the other partner to grasp and understand.

Just be her touch at the end of the tunnel to guide her through.

Sometimes that wont be enough and other help is needed. Has she been to her GP? Do you know why she is depressed or what the cause is?

I also agree with gozzy... Does she still love you?

Tiny x

soz I meant torch at the end of the tunnel...

You should give her some space, but don't turn your back on her. I had/am still dealing with bouts of depression. I lost a lot of friends, because I didn't want to do anything, just sleep or stay inside, they took my behavior as being a party pooper, instead of sticking by my side when I needed them the most; granted I pushed them away, which is what depression does - isolates you from the things you love. I hope the best for you and your friend.