Am I losing my mind? They booked this vacation as a xmas gift to their kids (none together, they each have 2 of their own) so he feels obligated to still go. He has agreed to watch her kids anytime she needs so she can work (she just got laid off from her current job and claims she can't find anything except 3rd shift). So looks like her daughter may end up spending 5 nights a week overnight at his house. His ex fiance plans on going in to tuck her in every night and obviously picking her up in the morning. OK, so her daughter has no father in her life so my new boyfriend is the closest to a father that she has had. She moved out of his house 3 months ago but still has a lot of her things there and is there just about every day. They leave to go to Vacation (driving 24 hrs each way) later this week and will be gone for 10 days. She is the one that cheated on him and caused the break up, although he doesn't know many of the details of what she actually did. She has dated other guys already but nothing serious or stable yet. Is she just doing that to make him jealous, is she purposely taking 3rd shift so she will have a reason to see him just about every day? He wants me to move in later this summer but I'm just not sure how this is all supposed to work out, not to mention what my kids would think and or feel about the ex being there a lot. If they had kids together I could understand but they were only together 3 years. And she actually told me that when she finds someone else they probably won't appreciate her ex being so involved and she probably won't need him in her life at all then. So is she just using him for convenience? Oh what to do? what to do? I have known him for almost 5 years, our kids are the same ages and play the same sports so we have spent a lot of time together and he is a very nice guy. I don't want to ruin a good thing but this just seems odd to me.
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