Jealousy Support Group

Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...

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its horrible

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a few problems really, ive been living with my girlfriend for 9 years, i have had lots of personal problems which my girlfriend has always been there for me, i have tried to end my life a few time, and she is always there. i am a lot better now, life is fairly good. it is my girlfriend, she suffers with depression, it only seems to be in the winter, i have found out by reading her emails that she is talking to both male and females. the conversations are getting quite hot, i have spoke to her about it, we both cryed etc, she said that it is giving her confidence etc, helping her through the bad times, is she cheating on me by have these conversations? this is so hard i just dont no what to do. she said she is going to stop as it is hurting me so much
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Hmmmmm...well ur girl might be bisexual! if she is talking hot stuff with both males and females! both of you have been together for 9 years!! if you both love each other why don't you make the right chice and get married! you can't live like this for ever! besides you know each other for a long time! it's long enough to know each other well!! so anything happens must be know! anf she should be talking to you about her problems not to strangers! AS FOR CHEATING it can't be cheating if nothing really happened between your firlfriend and those males and females! but it could be possible!! it depends on how well u know ur girl! i really hope she is not cheating on you but she can't talk to other ppl in a hot way while she is someone's girlfriend! so if she did what she said and stopped talking to these people then ur good!! but try to fresh up your lifes!! both of you!! get a break! travel!! refresh your relashinship!! maybe she needs someone to talk to her sweet talks!! give her a rose once in a while!! take her to a nice dinner!! these kinds of stuff!! she wont need anyone else if you do that!! and always tell her that you will listen to her when she needs you!!

do this for a month and see if your life changed or not!! if this is not working and she want to be with other people then you should both move on!! i may sound harsh a little but this is life! it's short and you can't waste it with the wrong people!
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