I am now engaged to a wonderful man who treats me like a queen. My past two husbands have screwed around and lied but later caught and the rest is history. Now I have jealous feelings and am constantly watching for clues to what my man is doing. He is in contact with a lot of women every day for his job, on the phone and computer. He has also done computer dating. He has been very open about his past and it scares the crap out of me that he may do the same. So when uneasy feelings set in I ask and of course he gets angry. Is it ok to ask questions if I feel uncomfortable or is it disrespectful to watch for things? Am I paranoid now because I've been so deeply wounded? If I don't stop this silliness I will lose him for sure! I will soon be having quite a test as he will being leaving for business for two weeks and I know I will go completely bananas. Any suggestions?
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