I cant help but get so resentful about my husband who spends most of his time on the computer and I have no idea what he is doing... ( he isnt writing in english and he has his own laptop of which he does not allow me to use at all because he thinks i am trying to find a problem.We are trying to mend a marriage in which has been allot of arguing with unresolved conflict. YEs i have told him how I feel, he knows exactly how i feel and he calls me paronoid but he has a history of creating profiles online in which I have discovered with his previous email of he denied using anymore, till the other day i glanced at an email he recieved and the email was CCed to the "old" email address as well. With this " old" email, it was being used to carry on a relationship with a girl in Spain, a girl in which i have communicated with but because she doesnt speak english it was hard to talk to her, my husband has been here in the US for 2 1/2 years an d we will be married for 2 years in November. These are all Gut feelings of mine that he is doing something bad and I dont want to continue to argue and fight and be resentful of gut feelings, and I am so tired of trying to find more " proof " or evidence, the proofs I do find online always cause fighting and conflict, he denies that any of these profiles are him, but clearly they are. What are the chances of his old email being used and also Alaska being the resident and also HIS birthday? I just dont believe him and I really wish I did not feel like this , how do I LET GO and quit worrying about what he is doing behind my back????? Remember he is not willing to talk it out nor go to therapy as he see's this as my problem only... and he is right, I just need to know how to control this as it is driving me cray! PLease give advice!
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