Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
I feel jelouse over almose every pretty girl my fiance encounters. I feel that every woman will like him. I don't think that the is gorgeous but he is decent. The thing is that he is successful and sweet, all of the women he works with have nothing but nice things to say about him. Everybody admires him.
The thing is, I wasn't like this at all when we first got together 2 yrs ago. He lied to me about a coworker that he use to date. Once you lie to me, it's hard for me to get over it. Then we broke up another time and I found out that he was keeping in touch with this girl he had met at his office. My friend told me that she was "beautiful". Ofcourse once we got back together they stopped.
Everyone says that I am a pretty girl and I need to stop worrying about him. I know he loves me. He has proven it so many times. He does little things for me all the time. The thing is he is so successful that I'm scared he might encounter somebody prettier than me or somebody with a better personality than me. I try to take care of the way I look by eating right and I sometimes excercise, not that often but I do. I'm very loving with him.
I have my guard up with him big time. Any little thing he does or says, really makes me start to question if I even want to be with him. We are engaged and I don't want to have these jelousy issues over pretty women anymore.
The thing is, I wasn't like this at all when we first got together 2 yrs ago. He lied to me about a coworker that he use to date. Once you lie to me, it's hard for me to get over it. Then we broke up another time and I found out that he was keeping in touch with this girl he had met at his office. My friend told me that she was "beautiful". Ofcourse once we got back together they stopped.
Everyone says that I am a pretty girl and I need to stop worrying about him. I know he loves me. He has proven it so many times. He does little things for me all the time. The thing is he is so successful that I'm scared he might encounter somebody prettier than me or somebody with a better personality than me. I try to take care of the way I look by eating right and I sometimes excercise, not that often but I do. I'm very loving with him.
I have my guard up with him big time. Any little thing he does or says, really makes me start to question if I even want to be with him. We are engaged and I don't want to have these jelousy issues over pretty women anymore.
Shai
I never started having the jealousy feeling til after we got married. I know how you feel, though...
deleted_user
I know exactly how you're feeling. I get jealous over pretty women too, even though my bf always tells me how pretty I am. Still, whenever I see a pretty girl (whether I'm with my bf at the time or not), I can't help but think that he would find her very attractive too. A lot of times, our fun gets ruined when we go out somewhere. It's so bad, that when we go out to restaurants, I do a silent prayer that we don't have a pretty waitress! It's pretty debilitating. And, I'm not one to give advice, but you should know, that YOU'RE the one he's marrying. If you and everyone else is acutely aware of how successful he is, HE MUST KNOW THAT too. You obviously think he can get whatever woman he wants. BUT HE WANTS YOU. you're not just a girlfriend or fling. You're going to be his WIFE. That alone should illustrate his commitment to you. Be strong, you're beautiful!
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