I just went to dinner Saturday night with a couple...they have had 6 m/c. No IVF or anything though. Hers is a problem with carrying the baby. So they applied for adoption and just got their baby. It's cool too becuase out of 9 couples the mom picked them. They are inter-racial and the baby is also the same inter-racial mix as they are...so it was meant to be. She got to go into the delivery room which she said was awkward. She was not letting herself get excited either knowing the mom could change her mind. But she said when they lifted up the baby to show them for the first time, she broke out in unexpected tears. She said everything changed at that momment...and this is not an emotional person normally. But she said she instantly fell in love with her. She had her at dinner and was telling me this so I would know that even without the dna link i would love my babies. She said it's an amazing thing to SEE the baby...that for her was when it began...not before that of course. She was scared too that there might be bonding issues...she said there aren't any bonding issues...she's very head over heels. That made me feel better about dna.
Posts You May Be Interested In
hello,my husband and I recently received news that our chances of conceiving on our own are slim at most and the best option for us is to use an egg donor.I understand that this is the best choice but am currently struggling with coming to terms with the fact that with the donated egg there will be no genetic factors of mine and the loss of being able to get pregnant on my own.I wanted to know...
I am scared beyond words to find out if any of my beloved blasts are suitable for transfer. This is my 2nd ivf cycle and it will be my last. I am 41 yrs old and have no children. I have no one close to me that understands the journey I am on. Please send prayers and good vibes my way.