i have a friend who is doing ivf but not donor. she knows i'm doing ivf too but not donor. she thinks since we're both doing ivf that my schedule and details are her business. she keeps asking when my next cycle is, what medicine i'm on etc. since i'm doing donor and havent found my donor i dont know when that will be. i dont really want to get into the fact that i'm doing donor bec a)it's not her business and b)we have a lot of mutual friends who i'm not planning on telling and c)she has a big mouth. i keep being vague when the questions come up but it seems very obvious to me that i'm not saying everything. you think she'd take the hint but she's not. i cant really say that i dont want to talk about it bec we're in the same boat or so she thinks. what can i say? the only think i just thought of is that i am very superstitious about the whole thing and only want to talk about it when i have something good to say. does anyone have any ideas of how to handle this or what are you telling your friends?
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