Interfaith Relationships Support Group
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Ive been with my BF 2 years in Jan. and we have had our ups and downs and in a christen and saved but he is not. he dose pray from time to time. i have made a complete turn around this year i stopped smoking and have put my life in Gods hands. i cant do it any more im tyred of thinking that i know what i want when God know what i need. ya know? and my BF is in jail rite now and gets out in Dec. and i wrote him a letter telling him that i have gotten rid of the sin in my life and doing what ever God saids and that mens no sex till im marred. plus he wants to have a child and not get marred and he does not live a Goddly life and i dont want any bad influnces and go back to my old ways. other than that he is wonderful and is very caring and he lisons and treats me good but i think in the back of my mind i knew God wante me to be with somone who fallows God as i do. ive thought of witnessing to him just not sure of how to do it?
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Well, I think the first step would be for you to pray on this and just ask God what the right choice is for you. Then, talk to your BF. Tell him all your concerns, BUT don't try to witness to him. Just tell him that you want to be with him, but he has to respect your comfort zone, even if he chooses not to be saved. Remember, Christians are called to be a light through actions, not words- so be the example and don't preach at him. That will only turn him away. You have a choice no matter what happens with all this, so remember that too!
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thank you i will tell him my thoughts and i have been praying about it. God answers my prayers just like this through people. i asked him what to say to my BF and you were the way to the answer to my prayer. it is a bit hard because we have to communicate through letters. but im going to write him now and ill keep you posted k . thank you again God bless!
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No problem. Keep us updated on how everything goes, ok?
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