MY best friend in the world called me the other day and told me a story that I was not only shocked but almost a little disturbed. So I recommended that she come to this sight. After reading some of the posts on here I am thinking it would have been easier to throw her to the dogs..I joined DS a few months ago and it has been a blessing to me and thought that it would help her with her emomtions. She was a cheatee, the relationship started and the man said he was going to leave blah, blah, I know this very rarely happens if ever anyway months went by and he said he loved her and continued his game by now she was what I will call hooked. So yeah she F--ed up BIG time, she is remorseful and was fooled as much as the lady waiting at home for this scum bag...sorry I didn't mean that. the thing I want some of you to see that are SOO hurtful and mean is that yes it is horrible in everyone of these situations and as they say on Bambi if you can't say something nice dont say nothign at all...every situation is different and I was cheated and I could still not say some of the hurtful things I seen on here..you are hurting they are hurting that is why we are here...we need to understand why things happen and if OH MAN I so seriosly want to say this girls screen name... opened her eyes she would see that...she won't heal by holding a grudge with everyone on the same end as her..so to anyone else that has been in any of these situations no matter the hand you held, I want you to know that I will try and help you anyway I can, I am learning to understand all angles of the cheating triangle and it has helped me to move past the hurt and learn most of all...And docdmv..you rock!!! EVERY post I read from you was understanding and still getting your point across..some others could learn from him..we are all hear to heal and I am hoping that people are not feeling turned away because of a few bad apples
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