Short version of my story. My husband had a 3 month affair the end of last summer. I found out last fall. I was devestated. We did have some problems but during the entire affair we were working on our marriage and things felt better than they had ever been. Before I found out he broke it off with her and she then busted him. Over the past few months weve been rebuilding our marriage and its just starting to get better. I have come across(the OW mailed some of them to me) love letters and poems my husband had written to her. I felt my heart ripped out again. Its been hard enough trying to get past the sexual part of the affair but Im not sure I can get past the things he wrote to her. I love my husband and I want our marriage to work but it kills me that he wrote to her in a way that he never has to me. What do I do??
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