Have those of you that choose to stay in the marriage all sought out couseling? Do you think that a marriage can be saved without a professional counseler? Can a marriage be saved if the unfaithful spouse won't tell anyone about it and doesn't want to talk about it? Can a marriage be saved if the unfaithful spouse won't look into himself to see why he cheated? If he has always cheated on his girlfriends before marriage is he considered a chronic cheater that will not be faithful in marriage? I am just so hurt and have so many questions. And certainly don't know when to say enough is enough and walk away from marriage. Especially since I consider it a convenant that I made with God to marry this person through thick and thin. He certainly has boundry issues and doesn't know what is appropriate and not appropriate and happened to be caught in a situation that men using a penis brain couldn't turn down the sex..... and then continued to meet up with this supposedly 'hottie'. Ugh, makes me sick. She was the HR manager and he was a operations manager. Truely just makes me sick.... I was introduced to her and she held our child (that was 8 months old at the time). That pictures still sticks in my brain and just makes me sick..... Anyway, you can tell that I have anger issues over this.....
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