It's been 6 months since I found out about my husbands affairs. Long story short we're in counseling now but it took us a little while to get there. I have gotten over my depression and starting to feel "normal" again. But my relationship I feel is out'a wack. For example-today I woke up to a huge fight with my husband which in all honesty pretty much ruined my day. I became so upset I seriously wondered if it was simply best to separate if not divorce. At first I never thought about leaving my husband. But as the months dragged on and the problems aren't fixed (still catching him doing things he's not suppose to on the internet or not following the Dr's homework) I can't help but wonder if I would be happier alone so that I don't have to deal with his lame excuses. Or is this too a phase... like it'll have to get worse before it gets better. When we fight sometimes it's a miricule that were even talking because we're so upset. In the same day (ie-today) we can make up and seem better than ever. Does this cycle ever mellow out or should i cash in my token now while I still can? Is this the new counseling blues?
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