My wife of 23 years started going out on Saturday nights with some of her friends drinking and listening to live bands and comes home at 3 or 4 in the morning half drunk.We used to go together and then all of a sudden it stopped.Then about 3-weeks ago she moved out of our bedroom into the spare bedroom.Now when she changes clothes she shuts the door,she takes her purse with in every room she goes in and she sleeps with her cell phone that she doesn't get out of her sight.Then when I confronted her if she was messing around she got mad and defensive.Well then I got mad and called her some awful names and accused her of messing around.Now she hardly talks to me and I feel she is thinking of divorce.She went out tonight so I told her to have fun and I loved her.The kind of response I got "I know you say you do" that shocked and hurt.Am I wrong to be suspicious?I need a real friend to talk to
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