Discovered my wife had been seeing someone about two months ago. I contacted him because she would not answer my questions. She told him we were separated. I asked him to stop all contact with her and he has. We have been trying to work it out, she claims that she made a mistake and she is sorry. Yesterday I found a secret email account with letters about the night she spent with another recently in Mexico. She would not admit infidelity so I called him and he told me she said she was divorced and they slept together the last night she was there. (He was the entertainment director at the resort) She denied until I gave her the details of their night. (Times, hotel, ect) She says she wants to work it out for us and our children but I do not know how or if I can trust her. What do I do? She is not a great communicator and I have so many questions and things to say but no one ask or to say them to.
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