my wife and i have been married for 26 years . we have 3 grown children and i thought she was happy. About five years ago i caught her with another man and with a lot of talking and crying i learned that she had done it before.We have not always had the best marriage because i am a trucker and have to begone for a few days at a time.In the time that we have been together i have never strayed even though i have been tempted.I try not to put myself in those situations.Recently i was looking at my wifes cellphone and saw a picture mail of a mans penis. When i asked her about it she ignored me as if she did not hear the question.I asked again awhile later and she said it was just some guy and she did not know why he would send a picture like that to her. After alittle digging through cell records i discovered more pictures from both of them and many calls .Now i have found out that this is one of the same guys she was seeing before and that there relationship goes back for over 20 years.I know that i must be an idiot for not catching on.Maybe i just did not want to see. what can i do now?I do not know to stay or leave.It has been going on for this long and i did not know and it did not bother me but now i do and it hurts so bad.
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