Why is it that we stay with people who cheat on us? I haven't been intimate with my H since I heard his affair, on his cell phone, but I didn't leave either. We are still living in the same house. He asked me to give him 30 days before I make any decisions, and now I ask why? Why should I work on this marriage, for the kids? If I didn't have kids, I would definately be gone, so should I go with that and get divorced, or stay for the kids, and wonder every day of my married life if he is cheating on me? A couple years ago, I busted him on email, talking to his co worker, and set that all straight. He promised, and she did too, that nothing happened, sexually anyway. So here I am again, with a H who says he loves me, and will do anything for me, but cheats, and lies to me. I actually listened to his affair, because his cell called me, and for an hour, I had the joy of listeneing to my H with another woman.I just wonder, can a cheater and liar actually ever change? Even if they can, why would I stay, do I love him, more than I love myself? Do I think that I can't have a healthy happy relationship? Why do people stay with cheaters?
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