My H is the one that cheated, but I am constantly the one who feels like I'm the bad guy. It's only been 6 months since I found out, but he can't/won't talk about it. It's like, okay it's out in the open, so now let it go. Just like tonight, his cell phone rang. I walked by and looked at the number before he could answer it and he went off. I told him I had every right to look. It wasn't that I thought it was a woman calling, I just innocently looked at the number. He won't communicate because he says he doesn't want to argue. We have 2 children, one is a freshman in college. His father is elderly and very sick. I told him I wanted to work things out and I know these are two reasons he stayed. I'm just tired of feeling like it's my fault because I can't get over it as fast as he has. I'm the one on medication and seeing a therapist, but I'm always the one to say I'm sorry.
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