i do not know what to do? in ashort story me and m partner have been together for 11 yrs we have a 9yr old son my partner has bipolar and a mood dissorder i left him 2 yrs ago as he was unbearable to live with along with drug addiction too i got ut and got my own place it as hard at first there was violence between us him onto me and it continued after i left he was over the edge had been for a while i got an injunction against him and he went to work abroad. we regained our friendship although we have been through so much no one knows me like he does. 2 years ago we got back together he had completely changed grew up and come to terms with his illness he was medication that worked and was in a much better place since being back together we are drug free and things are really looking good things havnt been better so i got the shock of my life when i wnet to turn his alarm off his mobile phone yesterday morning there was a text so i read it we dnt have any hang ups about looking in each others phones as we have nothing to hide or so i thought, i went into his inbox and saw a few texts from someone called dan we dnt know anyone by that name so i read them and it was clear it was a female. he ahd sent texts to her asking if she had a bf because he thinks she is a pretty woman and would like to hang out one timealso that his circumstances are complicated and he has a 9yr old son. i was so shocked couldnt believe it?? he got up and was having abit of a tantrum as he couldnt find the coffee filters so i cam ein the kitchen and pointed them out and said oh and when you and dan live toegether i doubt she will put up with this behaviour shouting at this time in the morning and walked out, he then said what are you on about to which i replied you know what i am on about!! he ahs since apolagised i was so angry because i was ill friday night and was in bed all night he slept in the spare room as i was vomiting and was to hot and wanted to have the whole bed to myslef and not keep him up so he was sat in the room next to me texting her!! he has text her since and appolagised saying he was drunk and thats his excuse he was drunk, he is sooo sorry he loves me so much and has made a stupid mistake i say the only mistake he is sorry for is not deleting all of the messages. he wants to now know where we stand? i just want to be left to think its christmas in 4 weeks and meand my son are going to my mums for a week now im thinking he is going to be getting up to no good as hel be 'drunk' i thought he had changed now im not so sure and i have put up with so much and done so much for him...i am not happy at all!
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