I've been trying to separate myself - emotionally - from my Hus. I thought we were going our separae ways until this weekend. I called to tell him I had mail at my house & ask him where to forward it. He took the opportunity to talk reconcilation again. Talking to him does help me vent my anger & bring some closure. However I don't understand why he doesn't get that having sex with another woman just ONE time constitutes an affair! He continues to minimize the fact that it was only 2x & their communication was only via text messages, not continuous contact. He doesn't call it an affair but a mistake. He only uses the word when I tell him to take responsibility for his action. I would have considered taking him back but he continues to minimize the affair & shows no deep remorse. Is it his way to continue to control me by not owning up to what he did????
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