Husband left in Nov - 2wks later the tidbits of the OW started coming in. Online sales = emotional then physical affair. Thought it wouldnt last - then rec'd divorce papers. Learned she has 3 kids - married 24 years. My husband went to his parents in GA to be near her - didnt answer emails or phone calls - just told me to talk to his lawyer. I started finding online sights where they dedicated songs and sent pictures back and forth. When I found the first one that said "from him to her" I love you sweetie, I threw up - seems to be my immediate reaction - UUGGH. I delayed as long as possible and turned in final hearing and settlement agreement papers two Friday's ago at his attorney's office. I looked at county records and THERE was HER filing THE SAME DAY I turned mine in, divorcing her husband. They WAITED until I relented and signed - they must have been in the car headed to the lawyers office within minutes! Just got sick again but I want to call him and her and start the tirade or drive up there and yank her out and lord knows what I want to do to him. So I'm pissed off writing in my message box pretending they are out there feeling guilty, dirty, more expletives and trying to keep my hands off the phone. Horrible reality is Im sick, jealous and feel like crap. God I didn't know one could feel 85 emotions at one time.
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