I am married for one year to a gorgeous, smart and successful woman. In the first two years of our dating she could not have enough physical affection. In the two years since, she couldn't be distant enough. Why are so many women between 25 and 35 simply shutting down physically towards the men and husbands they suppossedly "love"? And why is it that they tend to sleep to an almost excessive amount and rarely want anything from us except for "more time with girlfriends"? I have spoken to so many guys my age (30 to 35) who all speak of the same bullshit going on with them - complacent, lifeless marriages with women who are only happy when they WANT to be or when they get their way. Is there something in the god damn water here or what? Is there something wrong with the female generation of 25 to 30 year olds that should be looked at on a national scale? Is medication or anti-depressants a good answer? Someone fucking help! I am losing my mind and my interest in this marriage.
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