
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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After all we have all been through it is evident that we cant stop loving the people that have hurt us. It is amazing to me how they say they still love us but have managed to forget about us for a while. The pain and misery they have put upon us for their flings is at times unforgivable. I should have been the one to run into someones arms as my H has never communicated well and at times i felt lonely. Looking back i realise how little effort he has put into our twelve years and the first time when i was going through hell at work and didnt give Him any attention he was off like a shot to the bitch troll from hell. The time when i needed attention he didnt know how to give it. Perhaps this is not a posting but im interested in why we are still in love with people who hurt us?
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If you look at the differences in our character, our husbands and ours, it will become exceedingly clear.
I married my husband 13 years ago, on Nov 25th, 1994 and we have been involved a year longer than that.
I committed to him for life. I knew I would always love him, so I did not hold back that love. When he told me he had met another woman, those strands of thread began to unravel, very slowly. How can I withdraw, years of love and loyalty and investment in a few months, just because he did?
His investment was obviously far less than mine. His unraveled conveniently upon sight of a woman he found to be irresistable.
Mine, it will take years of soul searching, therapy and committment to ..that task...to unraveling...to stop loving.
I made the wrong choices .. but .. she still loves me .. she sees me as someone who has all the good .. and the bad inside of me .. and .. it's all about my choices ..
Do we deserve another chance? NO .. we don't ..
But .. there are some who love us .. in spite of our bad choices ..
For me .. once I got in touch with how I hurt her .. I could never go there again ..
In the end .. once this is over .. we will have .. I believe .. an affair proof relationship ..
I so hear your anger, your frustration and you have every right to those feelings ..
Please remember .. the ones who cheated .. are human too .. no .. we did not have to make such bad choices ..
But .. we did ..
Once we own up to them .. and take the "bull by the horns" .. so to speak .. in that we are going to do whatever it takes to make it right .. we will be so much stronger ..
I also send huge huggzz of gentle support .. to you .. at this time ..
I wonder, if after all these years, do I love him... or need him?