Does anyone else feel like they have to defend their reasons for staying faithful? Why is it that the cheating spouse can give a litinary of reaons why its ok, or why they "had", to cheat and actually expect us to have to defend ourselves for remaining loyal?? Even the people who post here that have cheated seem to fit this mold. Isn't marriage a contract of respect and honor? Didn't we promise to cherish and adore each other? To sacrifice our own needs for each other's? It just makes me so angry how self centered the resons for cheating seem to be. If youve got issues, WORK THEM OUT!!! If you can't, then get a divorce. But do it with repect and honor.
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