My boyfriend, fiancee, husband - whoever you want to call him, doesn't want to have sex with me but only once or twice a week. I don't understand how my need for sex could mean that little to him. Why must I beg for sex? He says he is always too tired and too stressed...that he only wants to be held. Thats nice and all but sometimes I need to get laid! I would never cheat on him but at the end of the day, when I'm lying in bed, frustrated, its hard not to think about having an affair. So I wanted to ask this of both men and women who have lower sex drives: When you stood at the alter and listened to us promise to forsake all others, did it not dawn on you that since you were to become our ONLY source for sex..that you better make damn sure you stop with your selfish reasons and put out? I don't have morals of steel. They are needs for a reason...I NEED it. Do you not realise that you leave us vulnerable for an affair if you are "too tired" all the time?
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