My husband had an affair 6 months ago with a coworker while I was out of town visiting family. The affair continued off and on for 4 months, in that time he asked me to leave our home 2 times and I did. At the time we were living in Ohio and my family was in PA. Me and my two children 3 and 5 moved to PA to be with family. Four months after it began he confessed to me what was going on and was very regretful and upset over what he did. He knows it was wrong and is very sorry. He takes full responsibility and blames nothing on me. He has answered any questions that I have and has realized how much he truly loves me and appreciates me. He came very close to losing me and realized that he has been given a second chance. My problem is that I can't stop asking him why he was with the other woman. He has left me to be with her in the past and I can't help but to think that he obviously wanted to be with her instead of me. I just want to know why and he keeps telling me that she was munipulating him and telling him what he wanted to hear, she made him a priority, and she desired and wanted him. He claims she did nothing better than I do and there was never a point that he didn't care about me or love me. But then why would he continue to see her. I don't get it. I want to stop and move forward. One minute I am in love with him, the next minute I hate him. Does anybody feel the same way.
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