Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I feel really down today. I don't know what is true anymore. Since my big blow up on Sunday it feels like my H is distant with me. I don't know whether I've driven him away or if he just doesn't know what to do.
I have found myself timing him when he goes to the bathroom, he almost always goes into our bedroom first and then spends 5-10 minutes in the bathroom, then goes back to our bedroom. I feel that he is hiding something but I have torn our room apart and found nothing.
I think I'm trying to drive myself crazy. I can't stand the distrust that I feel. I don't think that I'll ever be able to get back to the happy, secure feeling that I had before.
His company Christmas party is on Saturday and he can't make up his mind whether he wants to go or not. I think that he doesn't want me to go with him because she will be there and he doesn't want me to cause a scene. I would like to think that I am more mature than that, but I honestly don't know what I would do.
I'm trying to stay strong for my kids and be happy around them and act like nothing is going on because they have no clue that anything is wrong. But it's getting harder and harder.
I don't know what to do.
I have found myself timing him when he goes to the bathroom, he almost always goes into our bedroom first and then spends 5-10 minutes in the bathroom, then goes back to our bedroom. I feel that he is hiding something but I have torn our room apart and found nothing.
I think I'm trying to drive myself crazy. I can't stand the distrust that I feel. I don't think that I'll ever be able to get back to the happy, secure feeling that I had before.
His company Christmas party is on Saturday and he can't make up his mind whether he wants to go or not. I think that he doesn't want me to go with him because she will be there and he doesn't want me to cause a scene. I would like to think that I am more mature than that, but I honestly don't know what I would do.
I'm trying to stay strong for my kids and be happy around them and act like nothing is going on because they have no clue that anything is wrong. But it's getting harder and harder.
I don't know what to do.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Yes he could loose his job over this. He is a supervisor and she is a production worker. Even though they are on opposite shifts, there could still be alot of hell to pay if his employer found out.
I would tell him that I wanted to go to the party and go...
Like others have said, hold your head high and don't worry about anything...
If he is still having an affair with the o/w, tell him that you are going to tell his company, because it is not right...
Either he moves to another job and leaves the company, or she leaves....
My H affair was with his supervisor and if I had known that it was going on, I would have called the company and reported them.... Not many companies will allow affairs to go on between people who are married...
That said, IF HE MUST GO, for political reasons, then GO! Dress classy, NOT SEXY, well maybe a little sexy! Like a little lace peaking out, slight view of a curve, ever so discreet. Be warm, very warm, towards her, "It is so nice to meet you! My husband has told me somuch about you". hen, notice someone "over there" and take your husbands hand, say, "Sweetheart, can you intro me to Kevin's wife?
If he finds a way to be alone with her, he is in BIG TROUBLE. Make HIM AWARE of this BEFORE the party, he sticks to YOU LIKE GLUE!