Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I've been in a relationship for three years now. My boyfriend is brilliant. Providing i'm good, we never argue and he's so nice to me. Our relationship could be perfect. The problem is.....Me. I have got big trust issues. I was cheated on in a past relationship but my current boyfriend hasn't done this. Although he did put an arm around someone who he knew fancied him when we were on a night out (this was about 2months into our relationship) I know alot of you are probably laughing at something so small, but for me it freaked me out and i thought this person who i thought i loved might be someone who could cheat on me.It was as if something changed in me and after that night i couldn't look at him the same way, ie perfect and could never hurt me. We argued about it for ages at the time and quite a few times since. Obviously being in the third year i'm over it (i think) but for our entire relationship i've struggled with trust. When he returns from work i ask him loads of questions about whether he's spoken to any women or looked at any or anything else he needs to tell me. We have rules about the things he's got to tell me. I hate being like this, i wish we could just be normal. I don't even like it if he's sees a newspaper that has half naked women on the front, (oh and that is one of the things i ask him to tell me) if he's out in the day and he sees any pictures of that nature he has to tell me. I know it's wierd that i want to know stupid stuff like this but somehow it makes me feel better.It's like i don't mind if he has to talk to some woman or sees some picture or anything, it's just so long as he tells me about it. I'm a really nice person and am normal in every other way, it's just this problem i have with trust and a fear of being lied to. It sometimes makes us argue every day and i hate it.I love him but i know he won't and can't put up with my questions and accusations for much more.I need someone to help me not feel this way because i've struggled for three years now but i just don't know what to tell my mind to do. Can anyone help me? Thanks
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
its hard I know but there is one thing you have to remember, no matter what you say or do if he is going to cheat then he is going to cheat..
you say he has been supportive and he answers all your questions and that shows that he loves you and understands your securities..
just try and relax and enjoy your relationship with him.. he souns like a great guy and one who has your interest at heart..
If you find a good one, you will end up having a much better relationship.
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