I've been in a relationship for three years now. My boyfriend is brilliant. Providing i'm good, we never argue and he's so nice to me. Our relationship could be perfect. The problem is.....Me. I have got big trust issues. I was cheated on in a past relationship but my current boyfriend hasn't done this. Although he did put an arm around someone who he knew fancied him when we were on a night out (this was about 2months into our relationship) I know alot of you are probably laughing at something so small, but for me it freaked me out and i thought this person who i thought i loved might be someone who could cheat on me.It was as if something changed in me and after that night i couldn't look at him the same way, ie perfect and could never hurt me. We argued about it for ages at the time and quite a few times since. Obviously being in the third year i'm over it (i think) but for our entire relationship i've struggled with trust. When he returns from work i ask him loads of questions about whether he's spoken to any women or looked at any or anything else he needs to tell me. We have rules about the things he's got to tell me. I hate being like this, i wish we could just be normal. I don't even like it if he's sees a newspaper that has half naked women on the front, (oh and that is one of the things i ask him to tell me) if he's out in the day and he sees any pictures of that nature he has to tell me. I know it's wierd that i want to know stupid stuff like this but somehow it makes me feel better.It's like i don't mind if he has to talk to some woman or sees some picture or anything, it's just so long as he tells me about it. I'm a really nice person and am normal in every other way, it's just this problem i have with trust and a fear of being lied to. It sometimes makes us argue every day and i hate it.I love him but i know he won't and can't put up with my questions and accusations for much more.I need someone to help me not feel this way because i've struggled for three years now but i just don't know what to tell my mind to do. Can anyone help me? Thanks
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