I'm really struggling with this. It's been about 2 1/2 months and other then my online support and my sister I haven't told anyone. I told my sister a month after finding out. I thought it would make me feel better having someone else know and it was hard putting on something when around her. It didn't help though, she completely ignores the situation or tries to tell me what she would do if it was her. She almost minimizes my pain and that hurts. I'm very reluctant now to say anything to anyone. Anyway, at this point I don't know if my motivation is just protecting something very private between my husband and I or if I'm hiding myself away from from what could be some good support. I don't know what's good for me anymore. I'm lost I'm hurt and I don't know who or what to trust. SO I guess my question is, did you tell anyone? Did it help or just make it harder for you? Thanks
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