I caught my husband in Jan 2006 cheating with his college teacher. He finally confessed in April 2006. He wanted to stay he loved me etc. I was totally taken down to nothing as a person,I lost 50 pounds in 2 months,Not to mention mentally drained, I forgave and we continued forward.There was some counseling on my part,he only attended once. He has since added drinking and drugs to our problems. I just uncovered more emails to her this past week.She is also married with kids. I am lost totally lost! He says he misses her as a friend. He wants me and our family to work. What should I do now? Should I insist on counseling? It just seems like he expects me to just go through each day like nothing happened. I believe we shouldnt do this because evidently there was something issing for him to do it and we should be working on fixing that.
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